Blame No One!

Success is sweet and powerful. The moment one reaches the height of a successful career or life endeavor. There is that tendency for pride to come into a person’s life, if not checked. But, one failed not to remember, where is coming from and the beginning of it all, before the success story. The small beginning, how he/she struggled to get to the apex of his/her success. While others, who failed most times and refused to try again, blamed everyone for their failures and nemesis. No-one should be blamed for one’s failure in life, except oneself. Why blamed others, if you failed to succeed in what you are doing? It is you, the person, who determined the height of your success. If, what you are doing today is not working. Try and keep trying, seek and acquire knowledge in getting a better result.

Knowledge is power. Go for it! Determine to be successful in whatever thing you find yourself doing. If you failed today, people around you will blame you for not working hard to succeed in it. And you will definitely blame yourself too, regretting all the rest of your life. Wishing you had done it better or otherwise. If you give up easily because of the challenges faced on the way. What makes you believed that another job, project, or career/business, or anything projected in life to be done by you, would be easy to get through? Every successful person in life has a story to tell. Most of those success stories are, “I paid a price of working hard, before getting to where I am.” There is always a price tag to succeeding. Is either, one is ready to work harder and so much more than an ordinary person does to succeed.

“When life is too easy for us, we must beware or we may not be ready to meet the blows which sooner or later come to everyone, rich or poor.” Eleanor Roosevelt

If what we ever needed in life come on a platter of Gold. Some of us will not be able to appreciate what we have/ where we are today. Our life’s achievement would’ve been taken for granted, without any appreciation. BUT, as it might have been, a lot of us today have toiled and labored to get to the apex of success for ourselves. That’s what makes it beautiful, appreciating and fulfilling, and with a sense of accomplishment. It didn’t just fell into our laps. We worked it out, with pains, sweating, sleepless night and a lot of sacrifices. Good to pay the price now and enjoy the fruit of one’s work later.

 

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If everyone else is giving up on you. Don’t ever give up on yourself. If one way failed, think of other better ways, you can go through to get the result. Never blame anyone for your failures. No one can help you succeed, if you, as a person lacks the zeal, motivation in succeeding, and going extra miles to make it work, even when others see the impossibilities.

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